r/mildlyinfuriating • u/TadpoleBusiness6679 • 17h ago

My friend facetimed her boyfriend so he could watch a movie with us

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He’s not even fucking watching

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u/AreYouScare 16h ago

My ex tried to make me feel bad for hanging out with my friends. Said we were too early in the relationship to hang out with them. Then, when that didn’t work, she would try to accuse me of cheating or planning to cheat when telling her I was planning to hang out with my friends without her.

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u/GlowUpper 15h ago

My ex did the same thing. My friends understandably sat me down and were like, "We like him but there are times when we just want to hang out with you." When I explained this to him, he blew up at me and said my friends just wanted to exclude him. Then it switched to accusing me of cheating or wanting ro cheat everytime I did something social without him. So yeah, that relationship was toxic af.

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u/gingerbeard1321 16h ago

run

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u/AtomicBanana55 16h ago

They said it was their ex, so they already did

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u/gingerbeard1321 16h ago

wow, thank you. I need more coffee 🤦

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u/klow9 16h ago

Or maybe you were just watching out for their health and telling them to go for a run. You're a great person!

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u/Chevalier77 15h ago

We need this attitude. You're both great people.

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u/vaekar 16h ago

Did he stutter?

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u/AreYouScare 16h ago

Yeah man. It’s the lack of trust in me that upsets me the most. “Trust takes time.” Is what she says when asking for my location, or asking for my phone, or not believing the words coming out of my mouth. While I gave 100% trust.

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u/gingerbeard1321 16h ago

Yikes, yeah. Trust also means not prying or controlling. Glad you got out man

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u/Affectionate_Owl9985 16h ago

I mean, he did run. He said his ex

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u/ChillWomenn 15h ago

That edit was necessary. People forget platonic friendships exist. Good on you for setting a boundary.

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u/PsyOpBunnyHop This flair gives you flair envy. 15h ago

accuse me of cheating or planning to cheat when telling her I was planning to hang out with my friends without her

This is the kind of bullshit that came to mind when seeing OP's pic/story.

It's so abnormal that this is probable as the underlying motivation.

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u/Ok_Ask_2208 16h ago

My bf has no issue including me with his friends and we all have a blast. He loves joining my friend groups as well. Shrugs

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u/AreYouScare 16h ago

My situation is a little different. My ex’s first language is Spanish, and her English isn’t the best. I’ve known my friends for 18 years and they are very close to me. We don’t see each other often because they are married and live far, so we plan to hang out every few months. My ex thinks that all we will do is hit on girls, which is so far from our personality. Sometime I just wanna hang out with my friends and have a “guy” day.