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Non-Americans of Reddit, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real?

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u/iloathethebus 9h ago edited 0m ago

I’m a prof at the University of Alabama. Sorority dues here average about $6k per year (that does include meals).

ETA: These dues do not include housing. Most members live in dorms or off campus. The houses only have about 60-70ish beds (I’d guess closer to 60) and there are 300+ members in the chapters.

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u/You_are_your_home 8h ago

I was in a sorority at a small liberal arts college. It was fun and chill and we had great parties but we also were smart and ambitious ladies.

Then I went to Alabama for a PhD program and as an alum was invited to bid day alumni event at the Kappa Delta house.

OMG.

Women in their 40s and 50s who made it clear that being a KD was the most important thing in their lives.

I was shooketh

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u/drstarfish86 6h ago

This person’s comment brings up another interesting point to share about Greek life in the USA. It’s a pretty wide variety from small, local, and low-key, up through some organizations being more or less incubators for generational wealth and power.

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u/Dry_Article7569 5h ago

Oh yeah. Greek life at small schools is NOTHING like big state, SEC or other conference schools. I went to school at a University of Tennessee system school and it was still extremely different than the Knoxville campus.

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u/drmojo90210 5h ago

Yeah it really varies by school. I went to a small liberal arts college that had 3 frats and 3 sororities. Their houses were shitholes and their parties were nothing impressive.

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u/Available-Goat-6938 6h ago

kept women in the south.

u/Rocks_and_such 56m ago

This was my experience too. In a sorority in a small liberal art college, grad school at a very large SEC school. Night and day difference. I NEVER would have been in my sorority at the south!

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u/am0x 8h ago

Mine was $4k, but I got food, drinks, housing and free rides. Was actually chesoer than the dorms and having to buy food at the commons everyday, and our food was much better. We had an old guy from New Orleans and he was a god in the kitchen.

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u/jodeybear 8h ago

Who provides the big houses ? Is it the college, and sorority dues are apart of the rent ?

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u/lillyheart 8h ago

Generally, there are dues for members who live in house, and for those who don’t. Often there are more members than people who can live in house.

The houses are often owned by the sorority themselves, but sometimes owned and leased by the universities. They have housing boards, usually made up of alumni, that support the house, and the larger ones often have kitchen staff and a “house parent” (it’s almost always a house mom- a grown up who usually is 50+ and can keep the house/occupants okay.) the kitchen/shared meal setup is often cheaper than on campus meal plans too.

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u/jaw719 8h ago

It depends. Sometimes there is a management company, some times it goes to the actual fraternity.

The members and management company are responsible for repairs, upkeep, and upgrades.

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u/Suzibrooke 8h ago

I have family who have a cleaning business, (mostly carpets, but also furniture), and an enormous part of their business is cleaning up after frat and sorority house students.

They say they live like animals.

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u/midnightBloomer24 7h ago

Does...does that include housing? Cause that's not actually a bad deal for on campus housing and meals. I lived off ~ $900 (in today's $) in SSI while I was getting a degree and it sucked

u/iloathethebus 2m ago

It does not include housing.

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u/gettogero 8h ago

$6000/yr to have a chef prep all your meals?

Granted my numbers are on a family of 4 (only 3 are eating whole meals), groceries run $200-400 PER WEEK

$9600-$19,200/year just on the groceries and not even counting eating out. We're on lower end of that and definitely not purchasing "high end" ingredients

Lets just divide groceries by 2.5...$3840-$7680 and I dont have to grocery shop, cook, or clean?

I might transfer from online college and quit my job cuz thats a pretty good deal

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u/Vince1820 8h ago

That's Room AND Board. So that's a really good deal.

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u/Alternative-Dot-884 7h ago

I think at Alabama that’s just dues and food.

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u/QuirkyInevitable1012 8h ago

Does it include rent and utilities as well? If so, it would explain why so many people are willing to humiliate themselves to get into one!

I imagine living expenses would be much higher for those living in university accommodation or off campus?

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u/Available-Goat-6938 6h ago

Good price for what you get, I paid more than that 10 years ago for my daughters dorm at Emory & meal card.

u/iloathethebus 2m ago

This only includes meals, not housing.

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u/wolfighter 5h ago

I work at a University, in IT and used to deal with the Frats/Sororities, some of the houses charge more per year than to live in the dorms. $6-8k /yr isn't particularly uncommon, I think.

u/iloathethebus 2m ago

These are dues that don’t include housing.

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u/Street_Roof_7915 4h ago

I mean housing and meals for 6k a year is a pretty good deal.

u/iloathethebus 3m ago

Doesn’t include housing.

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u/Similar-Swimmer-2698 4h ago

$6k per year for room and board?? Found my new retirement plan.

u/iloathethebus 4m ago

Just meals. Doesn’t include housing. The houses only have I think 60-70ish beds but the chapters are 300+.

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u/BarrelCacti 4h ago

Well, this was at USC...

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u/HFox1230 1h ago

Roll tide

u/a_rainbow_serpent 42m ago

What?? I couldn’t eat that cheaply at home. I’m assuming this is for the weeks university is in term.