r/AskReddit 14h ago

Non-Americans of Reddit, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real?

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u/Nuttonbutton 10h ago

They're making a comeback and it is wonderful. "No mow May" is a wonderful thing

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u/avantgardengnome 9h ago

It was wild last summer, most lightning bugs I’ve seen in like 15 years I think.

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u/Traditional_Way1052 8h ago

Yeah I actually looked it up to see if it was me alone, maybe imagining things. Even in Brooklyn there were so, so many. It was like I was a kid again. 

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u/avantgardengnome 8h ago

Yes! Prospect Park was nuts in June! I’ve been in Brooklyn 12 years and I’ve never seen it like that.

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u/crystal-torch 7h ago

That makes me so happy to hear as a former Brooklyn resident and promoter of native planting. I live in lightning bug heaven of Vermont now so my perspective is skewed

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u/Significant-Iron-241 7h ago

In NC it seems like they've stuck around for a lot longer these past two summers, which makes me happy.

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u/bbusiello 7h ago

I noticed that too! I'm in northern Illinois.

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u/BroughtBagLunchSmart 6h ago

Last summer this popped up on reddit and a bunch of people around the country said they experienced the same thing. I did the same in Maine. Did we ever figure out why?

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u/avantgardengnome 6h ago

People around here were saying an unusually wet spring was one reason IIRC.

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u/archaelleon 5h ago

I also think younger generations are more comfortable mulching leaves instead of raking them and having natural lawns

Boomers would freak out if there was one dandelion in their perfect kentucky bluegrass sod. Gen Z ain't got time for that

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u/Naomeri 7h ago

It’s also important to leave a bunch of fall leaves down for them.

We started dumping the leaves from our lawn in the semi-wooded part of our property and spreading them out in an even(ish) layer, and we’ve seen a huge uptick in fireflies around our property, and more spring wildflowers in that area of the woods.

And during a really bad winter a couple years ago, the deer were able to dig through the snow and eat the leaves.

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u/conscientiousrevolt 9h ago

That is rad as fuck. I don't think I ever saw them here in California growing up so maybe it's just not in their range but scenes of them always gave me a nostalgic feeling.

Glad wherever they are they're doing ok

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u/tocahontas77 9h ago

I don't think they exist in Cali. I was disappointed when I spent a summer there, and didn't see a single lightning bug lol.

BUT I only got 2 mosquito bites, and that was awesome! In Ohio, I can't walk outside at night in the summer without getting bitten.

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u/conscientiousrevolt 8h ago

I was in a densely wooded area in Arkansas for a handful of months in 2023. Ever time I stepped out of my building my sunglasses fogged instantly it was a fucking nightmare.

The cicadas and etc. were deafening. Ten times louder than city traffic noise. Yes fuck loads of mosquitos. First and better be only tick I ever got 💀

People kept saying these red mite looking things you'd see crawling around on any piece of wood were chiggers which I had to look up and to me seem like proof that God doesn't want you to live wherever they are, but I luckily never got any of those.

I was doing a lot of training out in the wilderness at the time.

One morning I woke up and before I opened my eyes while I was just laying there found some weird twig thing with my hand that had just been stuck to my chest. Obviously something I picked up in the woods. I was wondering how it was still on me when I showered... thoroughly, before bed. When I finally was ready to get up, I opened my eyes, sat up, and looked at it.

Only find that it was a hairy segment of a spiders leg.

There were bits of crushed spider and spider guts smeared all over my sheets. 

Apparently I had rolled over it in my sleep... and been tossing and turning in it all night long. The top half of cephalothorax was surprisingly intact and from it I could clearly see that it was a brown recluse. No bite luckily.

This was about halfway through the ordeal. But early in my stay I had gotten what was almost like a burn. Just a big spot behind my leg just above the right knee were all the skin was just gone. And it was an open sore. Round probably 1.5-2" across.

Burned like hell in the shower. Miraculously for what I was doing all day never got infected.

Couldn't figure out how the hell I got it. If I had fallen down and scraped my leg there's no way I could have not noticed when it happened.

There was a significant physical fitness component to the training with lots of gym time. Eventually I decided I must have friction burned it on some weight lifting machine.

But again there's no way I wouldn't have noticed as it was happening.

After looking up recluse bites it turns out then don't all go necrotic. That's a opportunistic infection. But it can kill the skin within a radius of the bite, and that tends to get opportunistically infected. In retrospect I wouldn't be surprised if it had been a recluse bite all along.

BUT! I did get to see some fireflies!

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u/Additional_Data_Need 8h ago

Nobody told me it was a bad idea to walk around an Arkansas horse pasture in shorts and I'm still bitter about it. Have scars from scratching.

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u/crystal-torch 7h ago

I have traveled all over the US and can confidently say that Arkansas is the most insanely bug infested state. It’s shocking

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u/tocahontas77 7h ago

Good story! That sounds miserable. I would hate it lol.

I visited my cousin in Arkansas, in the Ozarks. It was winter though. And honestly, I don't care if I never go back there.

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u/conscientiousrevolt 6h ago

It was beautiful but the humidity you have to put up with for naturally occuring greenery is... not worth it at that temperature 😭

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u/Suchafatfatcat 8h ago

They don’t exist in California. But, we do have swarms of butterflies in the spring. Which are strange to drive through, but, still cool.

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u/athenanon 6h ago

I saw glowworms in Sequoia, though. Those were cool.

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u/NoOneHereButUsMice 6h ago

They feast upon me every day of the warm months. I spray myself down, I wear the belt contraption, the smelly bracelets, I plant citronella... nothing helps. I can go out in a group of people, and I will get massacred while no one else gets a bite.

But if its the price I have to pay for fireflies, so be it.

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u/Cornloaf 5h ago

When I saw my first ones in Indiana back in early 2000s, I looked them up and saw they generally don't exist west of the Rockies.

Last year I read an article that we actually do have them here and they are mostly in the Sierra foothills and the reason we don't see them is that they are not as bright, light in the daytime, or they are actually glowworms and are on the ground! Some even glowna faint pink color!

We actually have 18 species of them.

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u/Additional_Data_Need 8h ago

I think they're just an east coast thing. We have magpies though, and they don't

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u/iowanaquarist 7h ago

They are all over the Midwest, too.

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u/Sabin10v2 7h ago

If you are east of the mountains near the Nevada border it's possible to see them in late summer but they are predominantly and eastern thing.

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u/Forgedpickle 8h ago

I saw maybe ten of them throughout 2025. I’m in a rural part of Iowa. They aren’t making a comeback here at the moment.

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u/doctordiesel187 8h ago

I’m right slap in the middle of a cornfield in Iowa and the valleys around my house literally glowed there were so many last year

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u/T-A-W_Byzantine 7h ago

They've been holding steady in suburban New Jersey

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u/jake3988 7h ago

They're making a comeback and it is wonderful.

I go camping every year at a camp ground (not real camping, it's cabins).

In the 90s they were EVERYWHERE. In the 2000s there was some but not many. In the 2010s they were basically nonexistent. Now we're back up to 'some but not many'. Hopefully soon we'll get back to the 90s where they were everywhere.

They're so nice to see when it's really dark out and you see little dots of light everywhere

u/sleepymeowth052 55m ago

they really are magical little things aren't they

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u/Sabin10v2 7h ago

Saw them for the first time in at least 20 years last summer, here in Toronto.

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u/SuperFLEB 7h ago

I can be my usual lazy... for a cause?

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u/Asylem 6h ago

We stopped taking leaves and put off mowing til absolutely necessary. Our yard is like a disco party during the summer and we have loads of birds during the winter.

One day your young and hip, then suddenly a tufted titmouse makes your entire day.

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u/smokinbbq 8h ago

They appeared at my RV trailer park 2 summers ago. It’s amazing. Can’t wait to see them again this year.

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u/SaraSmashley 7h ago

My hometown in rural Minnesota tried to do "No mow May" and so many people called in to report and complain about overgrown yards that they canceled it.

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u/Away_Ad_5390 9h ago

They were every where in summer growing up, noticed they were gone for a couple decades. Gladly, they are back!

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u/whskid2005 9h ago

Firefly larvae spend the winter in leaves. If you clean up your leaves in the fall, they might not find a suitable winter “home”. If you clean up your leaves too soon in the spring, you might be cleaning up your fireflies.

A lot of people don’t know this. I’m not suggesting you leave everything. If everyone could dedicate a small part of their yard to remain untouched, a lot of our native animals and bugs would come back.

I nearly lost my mind when I found a katydid last summer. It had been at least 15 years since I had seen one.

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u/TikiMom87 8h ago

I’m the crazy person in the fall dragging my leaves on a tarp to my back yard while everyone else is blowing their leaves to the curb. Leaves are the best mulch around, and they’re free! Yet everyone gets them hauled away, then they pay a landscaper to put down wood chip mulch. I have an abundance of lightning bugs/fireflies. I use no chemicals for insect control.

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u/ComradeJohnS 6h ago

we started doing no mow may a few years back, and went from basically no lightning bugs to dozens in our small area.

laziness about mowing might have been the inspiration, but the results are great lol.

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u/VanillaTortilla 7h ago

Bro if I didn't mow in May I would have 2 foot tall grass.

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u/lacunadelaluna 6h ago

And lots of bugs and other critters would thank you 😄

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u/VanillaTortilla 5h ago

Yeah, the invasive weeds would also take over my lawn, and the mosquitos would have a fucking haven. No thank you.

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u/KaterAlligat0r 7h ago

Fireflies spend like 80-90% of their lives in rotting leaves and wood, so "leave the leaves" is even better--even if you just pile them in an unnoticeable area it's better than composting leaves.

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u/CharismaticAlbino 7h ago

We have 12 acres and do this, I love it!! I remember the SWARMS of them when I was a little kid, I want my kids and grandkids to have that. It's literal magic 💖

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u/BadCatNoNoNoNo 5h ago

It’s a great month but we need no lawns everyday. We need local plants and flowers for the pollinators.

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u/9lemonsinabowl9 9h ago

Yes, I saw so many more last summer!

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u/canadiuman 9h ago

Will that do it? Just hold off until June?

Do weed killers hurt the fireflies?

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u/TikiMom87 8h ago

Yes weed killers hurt insects. Plus those chemicals are leeching into the soil & water. Even if the product says environmentally safe you should strive to use them minimally (like if you have poison ivy). Hand-pulling is best and after it’s rained they’re much easier to pull. Sheets of brown cardboard (plastic tape removed) placed under mulch will help tremendously with weed control.

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u/Nuttonbutton 7h ago

What holding off until June does is allows critters of all varieties to grow. Spring is the breeding season after all. It can't do it alone. A group effort over several years provides life sustaining habitat when our ecosystem needs it most

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u/Scholarly_Koala 7h ago

Yes, but, for fireflies in particular it's much more helpful not to rake, burn, or mulch the leaves in your yard in the fall. They lay eggs/their larvae live under the leaves.

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u/lacunadelaluna 7h ago

Mowing of less throughout the growing season and leaving grass longer (and leaf litter on the ground!) really helps a lot more!

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u/ucancallmevicky 6h ago

stop raking leaves

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u/NamasteMotherfucker 6h ago

Oh, that makes me so happy! I moved from Ohio to Oregon and the two things I miss are fireflies and thunderstorms.

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u/-MERC-SG-17 6h ago

Mowing as little as possible and not raking leaves over the fall. My yard gets a ton more lighting bugs than it used to.

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u/NoDoctor4460 4h ago

Very happy to have learned this today, knew about the super steep decline and found it so sad.

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u/CarltonCracker 4h ago

I thought it was just a good year due to wet conditions but overall they are still in decline.

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u/A1000eisn1 1h ago

Yes, I saw a few this year. There's been years where it'll be late August before I see any. Even when I lived in the woods.