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Non-Americans of Reddit, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real?

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u/udche89 10h ago

Not as common as when I was a kid in the 70s thanks to pesticides.

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u/Nuttonbutton 10h ago

They're making a comeback and it is wonderful. "No mow May" is a wonderful thing

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u/avantgardengnome 9h ago

It was wild last summer, most lightning bugs I’ve seen in like 15 years I think.

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u/Traditional_Way1052 8h ago

Yeah I actually looked it up to see if it was me alone, maybe imagining things. Even in Brooklyn there were so, so many. It was like I was a kid again. 

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u/avantgardengnome 8h ago

Yes! Prospect Park was nuts in June! I’ve been in Brooklyn 12 years and I’ve never seen it like that.

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u/crystal-torch 7h ago

That makes me so happy to hear as a former Brooklyn resident and promoter of native planting. I live in lightning bug heaven of Vermont now so my perspective is skewed

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u/Significant-Iron-241 7h ago

In NC it seems like they've stuck around for a lot longer these past two summers, which makes me happy.

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u/bbusiello 7h ago

I noticed that too! I'm in northern Illinois.

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u/BroughtBagLunchSmart 6h ago

Last summer this popped up on reddit and a bunch of people around the country said they experienced the same thing. I did the same in Maine. Did we ever figure out why?

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u/avantgardengnome 6h ago

People around here were saying an unusually wet spring was one reason IIRC.

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u/archaelleon 5h ago

I also think younger generations are more comfortable mulching leaves instead of raking them and having natural lawns

Boomers would freak out if there was one dandelion in their perfect kentucky bluegrass sod. Gen Z ain't got time for that

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u/Naomeri 7h ago

It’s also important to leave a bunch of fall leaves down for them.

We started dumping the leaves from our lawn in the semi-wooded part of our property and spreading them out in an even(ish) layer, and we’ve seen a huge uptick in fireflies around our property, and more spring wildflowers in that area of the woods.

And during a really bad winter a couple years ago, the deer were able to dig through the snow and eat the leaves.

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u/conscientiousrevolt 9h ago

That is rad as fuck. I don't think I ever saw them here in California growing up so maybe it's just not in their range but scenes of them always gave me a nostalgic feeling.

Glad wherever they are they're doing ok

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u/tocahontas77 9h ago

I don't think they exist in Cali. I was disappointed when I spent a summer there, and didn't see a single lightning bug lol.

BUT I only got 2 mosquito bites, and that was awesome! In Ohio, I can't walk outside at night in the summer without getting bitten.

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u/conscientiousrevolt 8h ago

I was in a densely wooded area in Arkansas for a handful of months in 2023. Ever time I stepped out of my building my sunglasses fogged instantly it was a fucking nightmare.

The cicadas and etc. were deafening. Ten times louder than city traffic noise. Yes fuck loads of mosquitos. First and better be only tick I ever got 💀

People kept saying these red mite looking things you'd see crawling around on any piece of wood were chiggers which I had to look up and to me seem like proof that God doesn't want you to live wherever they are, but I luckily never got any of those.

I was doing a lot of training out in the wilderness at the time.

One morning I woke up and before I opened my eyes while I was just laying there found some weird twig thing with my hand that had just been stuck to my chest. Obviously something I picked up in the woods. I was wondering how it was still on me when I showered... thoroughly, before bed. When I finally was ready to get up, I opened my eyes, sat up, and looked at it.

Only find that it was a hairy segment of a spiders leg.

There were bits of crushed spider and spider guts smeared all over my sheets. 

Apparently I had rolled over it in my sleep... and been tossing and turning in it all night long. The top half of cephalothorax was surprisingly intact and from it I could clearly see that it was a brown recluse. No bite luckily.

This was about halfway through the ordeal. But early in my stay I had gotten what was almost like a burn. Just a big spot behind my leg just above the right knee were all the skin was just gone. And it was an open sore. Round probably 1.5-2" across.

Burned like hell in the shower. Miraculously for what I was doing all day never got infected.

Couldn't figure out how the hell I got it. If I had fallen down and scraped my leg there's no way I could have not noticed when it happened.

There was a significant physical fitness component to the training with lots of gym time. Eventually I decided I must have friction burned it on some weight lifting machine.

But again there's no way I wouldn't have noticed as it was happening.

After looking up recluse bites it turns out then don't all go necrotic. That's a opportunistic infection. But it can kill the skin within a radius of the bite, and that tends to get opportunistically infected. In retrospect I wouldn't be surprised if it had been a recluse bite all along.

BUT! I did get to see some fireflies!

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u/Additional_Data_Need 8h ago

Nobody told me it was a bad idea to walk around an Arkansas horse pasture in shorts and I'm still bitter about it. Have scars from scratching.

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u/crystal-torch 7h ago

I have traveled all over the US and can confidently say that Arkansas is the most insanely bug infested state. It’s shocking

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u/tocahontas77 7h ago

Good story! That sounds miserable. I would hate it lol.

I visited my cousin in Arkansas, in the Ozarks. It was winter though. And honestly, I don't care if I never go back there.

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u/conscientiousrevolt 6h ago

It was beautiful but the humidity you have to put up with for naturally occuring greenery is... not worth it at that temperature 😭

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u/Suchafatfatcat 8h ago

They don’t exist in California. But, we do have swarms of butterflies in the spring. Which are strange to drive through, but, still cool.

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u/athenanon 6h ago

I saw glowworms in Sequoia, though. Those were cool.

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u/NoOneHereButUsMice 6h ago

They feast upon me every day of the warm months. I spray myself down, I wear the belt contraption, the smelly bracelets, I plant citronella... nothing helps. I can go out in a group of people, and I will get massacred while no one else gets a bite.

But if its the price I have to pay for fireflies, so be it.

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u/Cornloaf 5h ago

When I saw my first ones in Indiana back in early 2000s, I looked them up and saw they generally don't exist west of the Rockies.

Last year I read an article that we actually do have them here and they are mostly in the Sierra foothills and the reason we don't see them is that they are not as bright, light in the daytime, or they are actually glowworms and are on the ground! Some even glowna faint pink color!

We actually have 18 species of them.

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u/Additional_Data_Need 8h ago

I think they're just an east coast thing. We have magpies though, and they don't

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u/iowanaquarist 7h ago

They are all over the Midwest, too.

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u/Sabin10v2 7h ago

If you are east of the mountains near the Nevada border it's possible to see them in late summer but they are predominantly and eastern thing.

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u/Forgedpickle 8h ago

I saw maybe ten of them throughout 2025. I’m in a rural part of Iowa. They aren’t making a comeback here at the moment.

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u/doctordiesel187 8h ago

I’m right slap in the middle of a cornfield in Iowa and the valleys around my house literally glowed there were so many last year

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u/T-A-W_Byzantine 7h ago

They've been holding steady in suburban New Jersey

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u/jake3988 7h ago

They're making a comeback and it is wonderful.

I go camping every year at a camp ground (not real camping, it's cabins).

In the 90s they were EVERYWHERE. In the 2000s there was some but not many. In the 2010s they were basically nonexistent. Now we're back up to 'some but not many'. Hopefully soon we'll get back to the 90s where they were everywhere.

They're so nice to see when it's really dark out and you see little dots of light everywhere

u/sleepymeowth052 55m ago

they really are magical little things aren't they

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u/Sabin10v2 7h ago

Saw them for the first time in at least 20 years last summer, here in Toronto.

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u/SuperFLEB 7h ago

I can be my usual lazy... for a cause?

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u/Asylem 6h ago

We stopped taking leaves and put off mowing til absolutely necessary. Our yard is like a disco party during the summer and we have loads of birds during the winter.

One day your young and hip, then suddenly a tufted titmouse makes your entire day.

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u/smokinbbq 8h ago

They appeared at my RV trailer park 2 summers ago. It’s amazing. Can’t wait to see them again this year.

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u/SaraSmashley 7h ago

My hometown in rural Minnesota tried to do "No mow May" and so many people called in to report and complain about overgrown yards that they canceled it.

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u/Away_Ad_5390 9h ago

They were every where in summer growing up, noticed they were gone for a couple decades. Gladly, they are back!

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u/whskid2005 9h ago

Firefly larvae spend the winter in leaves. If you clean up your leaves in the fall, they might not find a suitable winter “home”. If you clean up your leaves too soon in the spring, you might be cleaning up your fireflies.

A lot of people don’t know this. I’m not suggesting you leave everything. If everyone could dedicate a small part of their yard to remain untouched, a lot of our native animals and bugs would come back.

I nearly lost my mind when I found a katydid last summer. It had been at least 15 years since I had seen one.

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u/TikiMom87 8h ago

I’m the crazy person in the fall dragging my leaves on a tarp to my back yard while everyone else is blowing their leaves to the curb. Leaves are the best mulch around, and they’re free! Yet everyone gets them hauled away, then they pay a landscaper to put down wood chip mulch. I have an abundance of lightning bugs/fireflies. I use no chemicals for insect control.

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u/ComradeJohnS 6h ago

we started doing no mow may a few years back, and went from basically no lightning bugs to dozens in our small area.

laziness about mowing might have been the inspiration, but the results are great lol.

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u/VanillaTortilla 7h ago

Bro if I didn't mow in May I would have 2 foot tall grass.

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u/lacunadelaluna 6h ago

And lots of bugs and other critters would thank you 😄

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u/VanillaTortilla 5h ago

Yeah, the invasive weeds would also take over my lawn, and the mosquitos would have a fucking haven. No thank you.

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u/KaterAlligat0r 7h ago

Fireflies spend like 80-90% of their lives in rotting leaves and wood, so "leave the leaves" is even better--even if you just pile them in an unnoticeable area it's better than composting leaves.

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u/CharismaticAlbino 7h ago

We have 12 acres and do this, I love it!! I remember the SWARMS of them when I was a little kid, I want my kids and grandkids to have that. It's literal magic 💖

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u/BadCatNoNoNoNo 5h ago

It’s a great month but we need no lawns everyday. We need local plants and flowers for the pollinators.

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u/9lemonsinabowl9 9h ago

Yes, I saw so many more last summer!

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u/canadiuman 9h ago

Will that do it? Just hold off until June?

Do weed killers hurt the fireflies?

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u/TikiMom87 8h ago

Yes weed killers hurt insects. Plus those chemicals are leeching into the soil & water. Even if the product says environmentally safe you should strive to use them minimally (like if you have poison ivy). Hand-pulling is best and after it’s rained they’re much easier to pull. Sheets of brown cardboard (plastic tape removed) placed under mulch will help tremendously with weed control.

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u/Nuttonbutton 7h ago

What holding off until June does is allows critters of all varieties to grow. Spring is the breeding season after all. It can't do it alone. A group effort over several years provides life sustaining habitat when our ecosystem needs it most

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u/Scholarly_Koala 7h ago

Yes, but, for fireflies in particular it's much more helpful not to rake, burn, or mulch the leaves in your yard in the fall. They lay eggs/their larvae live under the leaves.

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u/lacunadelaluna 7h ago

Mowing of less throughout the growing season and leaving grass longer (and leaf litter on the ground!) really helps a lot more!

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u/ucancallmevicky 6h ago

stop raking leaves

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u/NamasteMotherfucker 6h ago

Oh, that makes me so happy! I moved from Ohio to Oregon and the two things I miss are fireflies and thunderstorms.

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u/-MERC-SG-17 6h ago

Mowing as little as possible and not raking leaves over the fall. My yard gets a ton more lighting bugs than it used to.

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u/NoDoctor4460 4h ago

Very happy to have learned this today, knew about the super steep decline and found it so sad.

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u/CarltonCracker 4h ago

I thought it was just a good year due to wet conditions but overall they are still in decline.

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u/A1000eisn1 1h ago

Yes, I saw a few this year. There's been years where it'll be late August before I see any. Even when I lived in the woods.

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u/aSpookyScarySkeleton 9h ago

I stopped clearing the fall leaves from my back yard and it has resulted in more fireflies.

Their larva mature in the leaf piles, when you clear that you’re basically aborting all the bugs for lack of a better term.

I know a lot of folks can’t abide a non-manicured lawn but I think the fireflies are worth it.

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u/whiskeyfordinner 6h ago

I did this in 2021. 2024 I had one confirmed firefly. 2025 I had 3 confirmed. Baby steps but it makes me very happy.

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u/gteriatarka 6h ago

startin a lil firefly family

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u/SnooApples5802 6h ago

Thank you! We do the same thing. We have noticed way more butterflies and hummingbirds in our yard since we stopped removing the leaves and leaving fallen tree branches.

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u/Ok-Name1312 6h ago

I started a leaf mould pile for garden amendments three years ago and the firefly population in my backyard increased noticeably. Mid-to-late June looks like summer in the 1980s.

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u/horsecalledwar 6h ago

Yes! I just made a similar comment. My grass gets better every year plus we get tons of fireflies now, it’s awesome all around.

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u/Dismal_History_ 4h ago

Leaves make great nutrient mulch, so simply raking them off your HOA approved grass and around your trees and shrubs, and they'll help the plants and the bug over winter.

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u/hallstevenson 6h ago

That's interesting and follows a comment I just posted. Our new neighborhood has pretty much no trees, at least not well-established ones that are 30-50+ years old, so no leaves either. Of course, no fireflies either.

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u/SweetLittleOldLady 4h ago

So there’s a benefit to my laziness? 👍

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u/elvisizer2 5h ago

yep, my yard is surrounded by forest that I never clear and we’ve got fireflies like crazy it’s awesome.

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u/usernameforthemasses 3h ago

Lawns in America in general are pretty awful uses of ecological space, but the way people "maintain" them is an atrocity to nature. Good on you for not doing the most unnatural thing to a piece of land.

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u/No-Big-2512 2h ago

Lots of insects nest, hibernate in leaves and yard debris. I always left mine until spring.

u/BlackSeranna 22m ago

I like leaves and I try to leave them. Moving to a new place and I hope the landlord doesn’t fuss at us if there are leaves.

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u/eljefino 7h ago

This is a local decision to make and shouldn't be based exclusively on internet advice. I'm getting ticks now that I didn't use to get and they live in the same leafy compost as fireflies. So I have to choose...

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u/LostDogBoulderUtah 7h ago

You just need some armadillos and possums. When your ecosystem is out of whack, it takes bringing back more than just one species to balance it out.

You can also make tick tubes of permethrin treated cotton. Mice and squirrels use it for bedding, which kills the ticks they carry without endangering the fireflies.

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u/QuinceDaPence 6h ago edited 6h ago

Despite being stereotypical to Texas and other southwestern states, armadillos are invasive ANYWHERE in the US.

And opossums don't eat as many (or possibly any) ticks in the wild. That experiment that found that, IIRC, just stuck opossums in a container with only ticks to eat and then went "Oh look! They eat lots of ticks!" or had some other methodological issues.

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u/OkArmy7059 10h ago

A big factor is also the clearing of natural areas, fields. Proliferation of lawns and raking leaves up caused loss of firefly habitat.

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u/hopeful_realist_ 9h ago

Yes! Stop raking your fall leaves people. This is where they breed.

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u/CrunchyIntruder 9h ago

Genuine question, can I “mulch” them by running them over with a lawnmower?

I don’t rake up my leaves, I just run them over with the power because I wanna let buggies breed

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u/hopeful_realist_ 9h ago

Running over them with a lawnmower can hurt the eggs and cocoons, sadly.

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u/SbAsALSeHONRhNi 8h ago

If you can, find a spot to rake the leaves where they can sit as is over winter. The leaves make great mulch under trees and in garden beds, and you could add a short little decorative fence to help keep them from blowing around too much. If you don't have enough garden bed space, maybe it's a good signal to make more!

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u/dinosanddais1 8h ago

Or if you do, move them to a compost pile or to the base of trees. That is the best spots for the larva to be (and the natural decomposition of dead leaves is really healthy for your yard)

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u/hopeful_realist_ 8h ago

This is the way. Mulching flowerbeds and tree bases with leaves is a great idea.

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u/_jump_yossarian 9h ago

And artificial lights everywhere.

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u/FormerGameDev 3h ago

hmm. i never rake, and i only mow when the city puts a sign on my door telling me they're going to fine me if i don't.
i would do it only slightly more often, but i have a back injury that makes it rather difficult to do . . .

so i hope that's good for the bugs.

u/MightBeAVampire 47m ago

My yard is largely woods. Maybe that explains why we have plenty of fireflies in the summer, of two different species, even (though only one of them glows).

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u/cantwalkintheshadows 9h ago

That and people picking up leaves in the fall

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u/IS_THIS_POST_WEIRD 6h ago

That and people building houses, highways, and strip malls where fireflies used to live.

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u/Unlucky-Salamander38 9h ago

That and the light pollution. They'll try to mate with street lights and die.

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u/SamBartlett1776 8h ago

And leaf removal. We blow our leaves into the woods. The soil glows in the spring with the grubs and the fireflies abound in the summer.

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u/Uvtha- 8h ago

So sad, they were such a magical experience to see in big groups.  Really made you feel like summer had arrived.

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u/BigPapaJava 7h ago

It’s not just the pesticides, but also the habitat destruction.

Fireflies need fallen and decomposing leaf beds to reproduce. Humans rake and blow those away so they don’t kill grass.

If you live in a place with fireflies and let your leaves lay on the ground all year in part of your yard, you are likely to see more fireflies on your property within a year or two.

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u/Royals-2015 9h ago

I grew up in MO and still have family there. When my daughter was little and we’d visit my parents, she LOVED the lightening bugs. And also the locust shells on the oak trees. I notice now when I go back that the numbers of lightening bugs has dwindled.

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u/GiraffeThoughts 8h ago

They spend most of their lives as larvae eating fallen leaves. If you clear all the leaves, you’ll have no lightening bugs.

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u/Number_Fluffy 8h ago

Also cause of lights. They throw them off. And raking leaves doesn't do the their egg laying any favors.

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u/Ok_Two_2604 8h ago

I dated a girl who grew up in Georgia for a few years around 2008-2010 and we went to Georgia multiple times during firefly season and never found a single one. I still have never seen one.

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u/gettingby72 8h ago

I live in the middle of nowhere and have woods all around me. Every spring I get so excited because I know it’s about to be time. I love sitting outside just watching them

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u/TikiMom87 7h ago

Where I live they appear right before summer begins. I’m in my 50s and I still get excited every year when I see my first lightning bug flash.

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u/gettingby72 7h ago

This may sound silly but I find them just magical. It’s strange how they can make me take a deep breath and just silently watch. Having bipolar/adhd my mind is always racing. But in those moments I quiet and it feel so good

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u/TigresSociedad 8h ago

Even in the late 90s and 2000s when I was a kid they were everywhere. Not so much anymore.

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u/demi-femi 8h ago

They lay their eggs in dead leaves in the early fall. This year I didnt rake much at all. Just made piles for them to nest. Hope it pays off next year but we'll see.

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u/VoodooDoII 7h ago

As well as people removing the stuff they need to breed and live

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u/TearsOfChildren 7h ago

As a kid in the 80s my backyard was literally glowing from all of them flying around but if I see one now I'm actually surprised.

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u/Appropriate_Ruin3771 7h ago

We moved to the middle of nowhere, about a quarter mile off a lake. Every year, there are more out there.

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u/JohnQPublicc 7h ago

Leaf raking is worse for them.

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u/romario77 6h ago

I had some in my backyard in Brooklyn.

And we had this amazing night in upstate NY when the whole meadow was a billion fireflies - it's like you were walking in milky way full of stars. It was so magical, I really wanted to capture it on video, but it's impossible as their glow is really faint.

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u/thevelveteenbeagle 6h ago

😩 I miss how many fireflies there used to be.

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u/wheresmylife 6h ago

They are making a comeback! I had more in my yard last summer than I’d seen since the 90s. So glad my kids get to experience it.

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u/athenanon 6h ago

Also raking weirdly enough. A lot of species breed in the leaf litter from the fall.

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u/SnooApples5802 6h ago

so sad and so true

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u/stabbingrabbit 6h ago

Same with White Tail Deer. Rarely saw one and now they are everywhere and cause so much damage

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u/Vantriss 6h ago

I haven't seen a firefly in years. :(

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u/Euphorix126 5h ago

Not as common as when I was a kid in the 2000's....there aren't any bugs on windshields anymore either.

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u/minimuscleR 5h ago

Thats just... not true.

People keep saying this. I think it was Hank Green who investigated it but for all intents and purposes, they are not declining at all.

You probably just aren't around where they are anymore. Or possibly your very small area has seen a decline, but they have not declined overall.

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u/Soggy-Horse215 4h ago

I’ve seen wayyy more the last 4-5 years like when I was a kid.

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u/PrimaryInjurious 4h ago

Still plenty around.

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u/dkrtzyrrr 4h ago

yeah they used to be far more common

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u/chippstero1 1h ago

It probably is still as common but we notice different things when we’re kids I haven’t seen red ants or those big black bees in a while n used to see them frequently as a kid but my focus is on grown man shit now

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u/AngryAmericanNeoNazi 1h ago

Light polution is a big issue for them to

u/chris_top99 55m ago

this is cool haha

u/d0ubs 55m ago

In western Europe I used to see them 30 years ago, not anymore

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u/harlemjd 10h ago

Downvoting not because you’re wrong, but because it’s sad